Funerals and Memories

The loss of a loved one is such a terrible time and the thought of
planning a funeral can be overwhelming.
I will always make contact with you as soon as possible and will come
to your home, if you wish, to plan the ceremony, at a time of your
convenience. I will visit again if needed and we can work together to
ensure that the whole funeral is a fitting tribute to your loved one.
I will be able to help you to find appropriate music, readings and
prayers if required. If you prefer a non-religious ceremony, I am
happy to plan this with you.
I would work closely with the Funeral director to ensure that
everything runs smoothly.
In our initial meeting I would listen as you tell me about your loved
one’s life and your special memories. It can be so difficult to talk
when the pain of loss is so raw but as a trained Samaritan, I have
experience in listening to people who are grieving.
We could plan and write a eulogy together and if you or a family
member wishes to deliver a tribute, I would support them as they
prepare.
As a celebrant I believe that it is important that the ceremony is
exactly what you want and reflects the wishes of your loved one.
You may wish to have a ceremony which celebrates the life lived or
you may wish to a have a quiet, reflective ceremony. I would be
there to support you through the planning process and at the
ceremony itself.
Memorial ceremonies are a time to join together to celebrate the life
of your loved one and pay tribute to all they have achieved. Again I
would work closely with you and your family as we plan a ceremony
which I would feel honoured to lead.